This is what Mervyn has commented on this whole thing. (i asked him to comment on it)
*1stly, men shud b more independant for gals to rely on
*2ndly, if a men mistrEats a gal, then he ain't a man
*3rdly, guys controlLing their wife sometimes isn't a really bad thing
*if say in tt xiaxue's blog then it is a bad thing
*4thly, that gal xiaxue, she's juz expressing everything out in her feelings
*n btw, if gf listens to their bf, then tt gal is too traditional[This is subjected to changes cause i copied it word for word off our MSN conversation]
Imprints of ♥ 2:04 AM.
WARNING: The following may be an offensive entry. If you can't tolerate my open-mindedness and my strong belief in feminism, you're welcome to leave.---Though I really should be in bed now, I can't resist the urge to come and blog. There are many issues I wanna write about, so I'll go a step at a time. Pictures shall definitely be posted, but at a much later date, so bear with me dear readers. =(Okay so just now, I was watching a few parts of the drama series that airs on Channel 8 every weekeday at 9 P.M. There was this lady who found out her husband was having an affair with another woman, younger, prettier, sexier (I don't follow the series so I don't know the names of the characters). In a scene, the husband was with the third party in bed. The other woman asked the husband why he fell in love with the wife in the first place, and how did they meet.The husband explained that they met through friends, and he spoke of how beautiful she was when she was younger. But soon after their children were born, all she cared about was them, and the family.He felt that she has let go of herself, and is no longer in touch with the world. To him, when she was once beautiful, she is now shaggy and unkempt. He felt like they were two strangers in the house, never talking to each other about their dreams and stuff ... and he emphasised on the fact that she didn't know how to please a man. He described her as a teabag used and reused thousands of times, so much that the tea is tasteless and he doesn't want to drink it anymore.The third party listened, then she asked him what he thought of her. He described her as red wine, full of different tastes at a time, and with each sip he was addicted. He also said she knew how to please a man.I'm not directing this at anybody in particular, but truthfully, I don't understand men in this aspect. If you knew you weren't going to commit, why did you say "I do" in front of the pastor and everyone else that day? I have heard of men being total jerks, but they expect their girls to be pure as the driven snow. I fucking despise male chauvinistic pigs who think they're alpha males who set all the hearts of the female population on fire. I look down on men who disparage women in the belief that they are inferior to males. To such pigs, women are deserving of less than equal treatment or benefit. Yes, you may have a PENIS, but it doesn't make you superior to us females!I know this will offend my male readers, but I don't see why you should be unless you are the type of men I greatly despise. I'm not saying ALL guys are bad, heavens no ... I just can't stand women being treated like mere tissue papers. Yes, I'm a feminist, and so what are you going to do about that? It's just heartbreaking to see females not getting the same equal rights as males. Of course that may not be true in today's society, but I know there are places around that are still highly sexist.And is sex in a relationship THAT important? Yes, it's the ultimate expression of love, but why do men I see view sex as a hobby? Is sex such an important role in making sure the fire of love continues to burn? I thought love between couples is supposed to be more than just sex. It's all about companionship, trust, loyalty and knowing your partner will always have your back, come what may. The cardinal sin in a relationship is to jump into bed with him/her too quickly, unless you already know he/she isn't gonna walk out on you the next day or anything like that.I'm writing all this not to offend, or to spark off fierce debates. I simply can't understand why so many boys out there must be such heartbreakers, and they often go round tellin' their mates that we girls deny them their manly rights. I loathe it when males don't show any respect for females whatsoever. We, like you, are also human, and we have our rights to decide whether we want to lose it to you or not! Male chauvinism is one thing I really can't stand. It's not just unfair, it's also wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong.Because in the eyes of God, we are all equal. It doesn't matter whether you're a prince or a pauper, a CEO or a road-sweeper. All of us deserve some respect, yes even the road-sweepers. Because they work with their hands and earn honest livings.It's 11:30 P.M. now and I should really stop. If you have any comments on this entry, feel free to tag or email me, but as I've said before, I have NO intention to offend or to spark off fierce debates. This entry comprises of my thoughts, and yes the old line pops up: Hate it, get out. Easy.May God bless you, dear readers.
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JASON13 wrote -
im here to read ur blog just to what intersting topic u hv posted .hahas!! dun agree with you larh.Can both KING and QUEEN equal ??gf must serve bf ,BF is king lehz lolz. im seeking to spam a fake angmo girl's blog,can help me find her tagboard ?i cant find it lol. and i dont agree with what she siad in her blog, similar topic like urs,wah!! she gt an evil plan to castrate her imagined husband ,and throw the dick into hot oil ,must spam her blog lolx. http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2006/09/weak-women.html
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SO all the girls here agree that men n women are equal?? including ERIC ??lolz if ERIC too agree , i would like to ask him a QUESTION lol so hor, if ERIC gt married one day, is he willing to help bear his wife BURDEN?? since technology is so advance, would he like to get pregnant n bear a child??lolz OR this yr his wife gt pregnant ,next yr ERIC 's turn to bear a child , now husband can take over u women now can be 'free like a bird light like a butterfly' EVOLUTION OF MAN the role of wife ,isnt it perfectly equal ?lolz ahhaa !
_____________________________________________________________________________________Basically, i took that off Dewi's blog. Cause jason is back. Again. Didn't really say much about what he did the other time because he realised he was wrong and i forgave him. Anywayys, because of one post my mei wrote about guys, he came back and started to discuss this, dissing at us, and dissing XiaXue. Which i think is PLAIN stupid because he can easily land himself into jail if he doesn't know when to stop. According to what i know, the post he wants to slander about was posted somewhat three years back. =.= How dumb. And seriously man. Who said men and women ca't be equal? We ARE in the 21st century for god's sake. Who said we have to folow whatever our boyfriend tells us to do? Who says females have to act like some dog to men? Please, we females DO have minds on our own. Who said we have to follow the orders men give us? No one made the rule saying girlfriends should listen to thier boyfriends to everything they say. So what you're telling me is that we females are dogs, and that when guys want to have sex with thier girlfriends who are NOT of age, these innocent girls should just follow those orders and get involved in underaged sex? PLEASE! ITS BRAINLESS SHIT ALRIGHT? The guy can either get fined, sent to the boys' home, get jailed for those above 18 and even get both penalties. C'MON. Its really stupid alright. AND. C'mon, King and queen, WHO SAID THEY CAN'T BE EQUAL? Haven't you heard of a queen leading a country? Haven't you heard of female presidents? And please, who said men and women have to CHANGE and SWAP gender roles? Giving birth can never be done by men because you have no SEXUAL ORGANS to do so. Going for a sex change won't make you a real woman because the hole is man-made, the hole can't expand for the baby to come out naturally. It will die of strangulation because the hole is too small for it to fit. And basically, after reading XiaXue's post about those bastards, i think i would do exactly the same thing to my boyfriends if they ever dare do such things to me. Because, who said we were meant to be treated that way? Who gave the rule saying the females can be used and ordered and trampled on like dirt or dust? Men always overpower women, so why can't women overpower men? No one said it wasn't correct? There isn't a law stating that men can't get overpowered by women right? What sort of nonsense are you spouting about?
i do have more things to comment on actually. But at the rate im going, i think my brain would be too fried to even come up with more to type. i will continue on this when i have the time. Blog later. BYE!
Imprints of ♥ 12:43 AM.
Imprints of ♥ 1:52 AM.
Super duper no mood to do anything right now. Its 1.25 am in the morning, and i just wanna sit in one corner, hug myself and emo my way to hell. Thats what i REALLY wanna do.
Guilt and remorse, its something i don't like showing to others. Its makes me cry easily, and i hate crying in front of people. Being guilt-tripped makes me feel like crap, i will start thinking about how stupid, dumb or just plain retarded am i and then the floodgates start rolling. Not something im very proud of. Pissed.
No mood to work tomorrow. Can i just go like, AWOL or something and pangsehh whoever is supposed to work with me tomorrow? Joeffery is going to kill me, Verna is gonna call me. FUCK IT LARHHHHHH. i hate it when its like this.
i hate you♥. Where are you♥ when i wanna talk to you♥. You promised you'd♥ listen to me if i wanted to let off steam. Seems like people always break promises do they?
Imprints of ♥ 1:24 AM.
Does it make sense when i tell people im happy AND sad at the same time? i don't really know whats on my mind right now. Am i happy because i saw him, or am i sad because i saw him. And i happy to be near him, or am i sad to be near him? i wanna be next to him, but im afraid to do so. i wanna make him happy, but im not sure how to do so. i wanna see him smile, but im not sure if i have the privilege(sp?) to do so. All the i wants and i don't knows. =.= Its enough to make someone go mad alright.
Life sucks when you KNOW you miss him but you can't tell him what you think. It sucks when he treats you like crap and you treat him like a treasure. Life sucks when you konw you want him to be happy but he just doesn't seem to care. GRRRRRRRRRR!
i miss him
♥ ALOT!
Imprints of ♥ 10:09 PM.
HAHAH! TODAY IS LOVED MAN! Outing with clique just now. xDD Plus an addition of Wilson. =.= And HELL we had fun! Movie, arcade, food, photos and many random things. ((: LOVES!
Woke up at 6 plus cause alarm woke the whole family up. Whoops. (>.<) Aftermath, i went back to sleep, and woke up around 9. Then, went to wash-up, bathe, used the computer until like 9 plus 10, changed, while chatting with WOMAN
♥ on the phone. HAHAH! So funny man. Then talk until like 10, hang up, changed and then papa drove me to Compass Point. Cause HanSheng ahhmahh
♥ was at RM buying LJS breakfast for me, so i went to the MRT and waited for him to appear. o.O On the way to the MRT station, i saw KINGKONG at CP's branch of LJS, and i walked off like, super quickly, saw Alvin Kwa when waiting for ahhmahh. o.O After he came, train-ed down to Serangoon. Zzzzz. Drink orange juice kena scolded. Eat hashbrown finish liao, want to bite my sandwich, the bastards in green appear again. Zzzzzzz. Waited for the rest to come. Jane
♥ came first, followed by Irene
♥ and Wilson(weirdo), then came Abi
♥ and Marcus((: . WOMAN
♥ was late cause she did her SS until like, 11 then she sms me say, 'EHH, DON'T KILL ME, i go shower now then i leave the house go find you.' =.= Waited for her to come, i STILL kena scolded because of the food thing, (keep inside the plastic bag ALSO cannot isit? ._.) then he also nag say if WOMAN
♥ doesn't come in 5 minutes, we all have to pay extra $2 fine. Wahh lau, timing VEHHH zhun, very exact, she come down, train come. HAHAH! Boarded the train, laughing like crap. Spammed Muhaimin(: 's phone mahhs, then he thought who, he call back. Then landed up is HanSheng ahhmahh
♥'s phone. xDD Then he make me laugh, then i hit the door behind me, cause i standing near it. Then laugh laugh laugh like stupid idiot like that, all the jokes come out. Went to ViVo, immediately went mad. Cause i go CandyEmpire, wanted to find my sweet, but wo zao bu dao. T-T WOMAN
♥ and gang pangsehh-ed me with Irene
♥ and Marcus((: then they run don't know go where. Zzzzz. Went walking around with Irene
♥ and Marcus((: lorhhs, laughing like idiots also, i know some people looking at us. (>.<) Went to GV to meet them, decided to catch Hotel For Dogs, quite a nice movie. i don't wanna give much details about it, spoiler. HAHAH! Then Irene
♥ left for choir mahhs. So we go eat lunch lorhhs. Went to Abi
♥'s workplace to eat. The food there quite nice, but quite ex-. So, please, people who have NOOO moo-lah, do NOT go there to eat, you CONFIRM pok gai one. Lols. Lunch costed us $135.10 (cause i have the receipt with me) and the cost of one SMALL serving of tofu cheesecake is enough to buy me TWO slices of the Pineapple Cheesecake (
♥) from LJS. =.= See what i mean by lunch was expensive? Went into the theatre at 2.15. Watch the movie until 4 plus. THOSE DOGS WERE CUTEEE~! Ended liao, go walk walk. Toilet then Pet Safari then arcade. DDR! HAHAH! Play play play, i think 2 hours plus. Played against each other, then play against some random stranger who asked me if she could play. Since she wanted to play, we play with her lorhhs. Most of it i play larhh, sweating. =.= OHH, Jane
♥'s CHRIS-TOPHER (Kiss the fur) came out of the blue and went home at 6 plus. Saw Gurmit Singh there just now with his kids. Nice person to have as a papa. xDD After that, went to the SkyPark, play then walk around then play again. Walk around, then go SkyPark slack. Photos and all the unglams. o.O WOMAN
♥ and Abi
♥ are holding onto some photos, gonna get it from them soon, then i upload. (>.<) Irene
♥ and Marcus((: came to find us at 6 plus lorhhs. Slack until 7 then we went scouting for FOOD. Landed up we go to Plaza Singapura for KFC, train-ed back to ViVo, then went back. Something stupid happened on the train, super funny. WOMAN
♥ called her BF gay. Laughs* That one the best. Left at Serangoon then went to interchange, 109-ed home, bathed, changed, and now blogging. HAHAH!
i DO miss him♥
Imprints of ♥ 10:23 PM.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Work just now. Clocked out at 4 plus 5, stayed there until 8. =.= Home at 9 plus. i slept in the bus, missed my stop. Zzzzzzz. Don't wanna give details. Quite happy this morning larhhhhhhhhhs! HAHAH! LOVES! HanSheng knows why. xDD Slack alot today. No mood to do anything whatsoever yo! ._. Super slack these few days. i don't know how many more weeks before school starts, i want school to start fast. i wanna see HO YUEMING in school. i wanna hangout with clique again. i miss the old days. How i wish we were ALL in the same school sia. =.=
Know something, i like it when he cares, i like it when he is nice, i like it when he laughs, i like it when he smiles, i like it when he works, i like it when he jokes, i like it when he is happy, i like it when he talks, i like it when he is not serious, i like it when he is playing, i like it when he is not stressed, i like it when he is in a good mood.
And know something, i don't like it when he is in a bad mood, i don't like it when he hangs up on my call before i even complete my sentence, i don't like it when he is sad, i don't like it when he is stressed, i don't like it when he flares up at idiots like THEM, i don't like it when he gets scolded because of something, i don't like it when he is soooo busy in the kitchen, i don't like it when he doesn't joke with people, i don't like it when he doesn't smile, i don't like it when he is so serious. i don't like many many many more things, the list goes on and on.
And you know something else, i want him to be happy, i want him to be safe, i want him to smile, i want him to laugh, i want him to joke, i want him to stop caring about things unrelated to him, i want him to remain like he is now, full of sunshine, laughter, no bad moods. Is that possible?
Imprints of ♥ 10:14 PM.
Update time. HAHAH! Outing with Charmaine jie just now. HAHAH! NICE MAN! i spent 30 bucks on a bag and 10 bucks on shoes, 5 bucks on earrings, and i don't know how much on food. =.= She, 100++ on clothes and a wallet, less than 6 bucks on food. WHAT THE HELL SIA. She is going to declare herself bankrupt soon man! xDD And i still have monehh~ Went to Bugis, saw MANYMANY things that i wanted, but, if i spendspendspend, i will have no cash. So, i control. Shop until 6 plus, then train-ed back to Kovan. Walked home. Guess who i saw when i was reaching home? Mrs Fiona Tan, VP of Compassvale Secondary school, Head of Department of English. =.= Super fascinated now, apparently, she has just moved house, and is now staying near MY place. So i means that i have to be wary of what i do when im at the playground. =.= Anywayys, im going to sleep soon. BYEBYEBYEBYEBYE!
Imprints of ♥ 12:43 AM.
Life does suck ALOT when he is still so oblivious bout everything. Nad's right. The things we do for love is so unimagineable. Everything guys do, we suffer. ALOT. Zzzzz. But why do i care for him so much. =.=
It sucks when you look at him and care so much but he doesn't know.
It sucks when he talks about you to his friends and you don't know what he said.
It sucks when you ask him questions and he just answers you unwillingly.
It sucks when you ask him to becareful and he just treats it like wind.
It sucks when you like him so much and he doesn't know.
JUST WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?! Y-Y
Saddening.
P.S. Muhaimin has NO childhood. He doesn't know the song ''You'll be in my heart'' by Phil Colins(sp?) is from the Tarzan soundtrack. HAHAH!
Imprints of ♥ 12:02 AM.
im gonna fucking blow to my top soon. ASSHOLE!
Imprints of ♥ 6:44 PM.
Dang. im still tired, sleepy and very very very very very out of voice. Thats the result of screaming and shoputing at campfire yesterday. Soooooooo ..... can. Lols. Reached school at 3 plus, joined my guides for captain's ball. With an empty stomach too. Not such a good idea alright? Then play until like, 4 plus going 5, they go do reflection then i go NSZ (north star zone) to slack. Sit inside there snacking on Pretz. HAHAH! Then go out buy more food to eat. =.= Too hungry already. LOL! Saw Jody dear. Then buy already go back to NSZ to eat. Finish liao, go out meeting with the alumni. Then in zi-high mood, they don't want pei me. Only until the real campfire start i laugh until stomach pain. The Chikucha dance thing, Jeremiah the BEST. Cause he do do do, do until so sexy, even the sec1s also like lorhhs. Crap larhhs. Ohh, then Irene and Patricia came back to help. HAHAHAHAH! Want to happy but cannot so happy, cause still worried. On the whole still quite happy. Hahahs! Laug laugh laugh, do the chicken dance and the banana dance also laugh. HE LARHH. Crap sia. Practically everyone no voice, me, Khairul, Irene, Michelle and a few others, bo xia already. =.= Shout and rara too much. But heng lorhhs, they enthu with us. If not i will go around scolding people, like what happened durig the UG camp. Then went off at 9 plus, did something evil. xDD Went to LRT then train to Compass, buy my KFC, finished my burger then train-ed to Kovan. Lols. Picked up brother from TP, then home-d. HAHAH! Eat eat eat, then slack slack awhile, bathe-d and sleeppppp~
Today, kena woken up at 11 plus. Fell back to lalaland again. ._. Then woke up at 12 plus. Wash up, slack, fell asleep again. Zzzzz. im that tired. Then, chicken rice for lunch. LOVED MAN! Hahahs, after that blogging.
Marcus: i want you to take things slowly, you will get over it. i promise you. Its not a very nice thing, but you will get over the grief alright? Remember that we will all be here for you, even if our parents hate you and you have no other friends alright?
Imprints of ♥ 2:55 PM.
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Just changed my blogskin. Still quite sad lorhhhhhs. i think Muhaimin should scold Mervyn more, ask him don't indirectly shoot people. Damn saddening one lorhhs. =.= Anywayys. Late for work again, stupid KingKong come. Verna and Joeffery kena scolding from him cause of the stupid cms. Asshole. Damn it lorhhs. Then Verna say this month ZingZing should be coming. Asshole. i don't like it when ZingZing comes lorhhs. So stress, then say want come then drag drag drag. Crap lorhhs. Won't bother about that. Moodswing today. Super bad. Flared up at Irene just now. Sorry. After awhile liao then okayy. Don't wanna talk about work already. Super stress lorhhs.
i found out something just now, MRS WINNIE LIM 4 MONTHS PREGNANT LIAO LORHH! AND WE ALL DON'T KNOW. WAHH LAU! Heng SiHui in her class, then i know. If not, i won't know one lorhhs. Zzzzzzzzzz. I WANNA GO FOR HER BABY'S FIRST MONTH CELEBRATION. And im gonna call ALOTALOTALOT of people down for it. WHEEEEEEEEEEEE~
'CHER, GRATS MAN!
Imprints of ♥ 11:01 PM.
DAMN, the way Mervyn told me he not emo was like shooting me, saying that im damn emo. THANKS ARHH, WAY TO GO. NOW I REALLY WILL GO EMO. THANKS!
Imprints of ♥ 8:52 PM.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! I DON'T WANNA WORK FULL SHIFT TOMORROW! (*HINTS! i think im lying to myself. i DO wanna go to work) HAHAH! ANDANDAND! SAD! CAUSE AUNTIE JAMILAH WORKING LAST DAY TOMORROW, SHE SHIFTING TO YISHUN SOON LORHH! Then she not coming back to work already. Y-Y
HAHAHAHAH! Anywayys, i went mad with people today sia! xDD LAUGHS* Go crazy awhile, then playplay. Then slack. So irritated today. Lols. But after awhile okayy already. Cause got people there see me like want die want die like that. =.= Talk crap and all with Muhaimin, laughs* Then home. SWEET. Bathe-d, dinner-ed (still hungry) and now blogging.
Imprints of ♥ 8:51 PM.