Saturday, March 28, 2009
WARNING: The following may be an offensive entry. If you can't tolerate my open-mindedness and my strong belief in feminism, you're welcome to leave.
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Though I really should be in bed now, I can't resist the urge to come and blog. There are many issues I wanna write about, so I'll go a step at a time. Pictures shall definitely be posted, but at a much later date, so bear with me dear readers. =(
Okay so just now, I was watching a few parts of the drama series that airs on Channel 8 every weekeday at 9 P.M. There was this lady who found out her husband was having an affair with another woman, younger, prettier, sexier (I don't follow the series so I don't know the names of the characters). In a scene, the husband was with the third party in bed. The other woman asked the husband why he fell in love with the wife in the first place, and how did they meet.
The husband explained that they met through friends, and he spoke of how beautiful she was when she was younger. But soon after their children were born, all she cared about was them, and the family.
He felt that she has let go of herself, and is no longer in touch with the world. To him, when she was once beautiful, she is now shaggy and unkempt. He felt like they were two strangers in the house, never talking to each other about their dreams and stuff ... and he emphasised on the fact that she didn't know how to please a man. He described her as a teabag used and reused thousands of times, so much that the tea is tasteless and he doesn't want to drink it anymore.
The third party listened, then she asked him what he thought of her. He described her as red wine, full of different tastes at a time, and with each sip he was addicted. He also said she knew how to please a man.I'm not directing this at anybody in particular, but truthfully, I don't understand men in this aspect. If you knew you weren't going to commit, why did you say "I do" in front of the pastor and everyone else that day? I have heard of men being total jerks, but they expect their girls to be pure as the driven snow. I fucking despise male chauvinistic pigs who think they're alpha males who set all the hearts of the female population on fire. I look down on men who disparage women in the belief that they are inferior to males. To such pigs, women are deserving of less than equal treatment or benefit. Yes, you may have a PENIS, but it doesn't make you superior to us females!I know this will offend my male readers, but I don't see why you should be unless you are the type of men I greatly despise. I'm not saying ALL guys are bad, heavens no ... I just can't stand women being treated like mere tissue papers. Yes, I'm a feminist, and so what are you going to do about that? It's just heartbreaking to see females not getting the same equal rights as males. Of course that may not be true in today's society, but I know there are places around that are still highly sexist.
And is sex in a relationship THAT important? Yes, it's the ultimate expression of love, but why do men I see view sex as a hobby? Is sex such an important role in making sure the fire of love continues to burn? I thought love between couples is supposed to be more than just sex. It's all about companionship, trust, loyalty and knowing your partner will always have your back, come what may. The cardinal sin in a relationship is to jump into bed with him/her too quickly, unless you already know he/she isn't gonna walk out on you the next day or anything like that.I'm writing all this not to offend, or to spark off fierce debates. I simply can't understand why so many boys out there must be such heartbreakers, and they often go round tellin' their mates that we girls deny them their manly rights. I loathe it when males don't show any respect for females whatsoever. We, like you, are also human, and we have our rights to decide whether we want to lose it to you or not! Male chauvinism is one thing I really can't stand. It's not just unfair, it's also wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong.Because in the eyes of God, we are all equal. It doesn't matter whether you're a prince or a pauper, a CEO or a road-sweeper. All of us deserve some respect, yes even the road-sweepers. Because they work with their hands and earn honest livings.It's 11:30 P.M. now and I should really stop. If you have any comments on this entry, feel free to tag or email me, but as I've said before, I have NO intention to offend or to spark off fierce debates.
This entry comprises of my thoughts, and yes the old line pops up: Hate it, get out. Easy.
May God bless you, dear readers.
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JASON13 wrote -
im here to read ur blog just to what intersting topic u hv posted .hahas!! dun agree with you larh.Can both KING and QUEEN equal ??gf must serve bf ,BF is king lehz lolz. im seeking to spam a fake angmo girl's blog,can help me find her tagboard ?i cant find it lol. and i dont agree with what she siad in her blog, similar topic like urs,wah!! she gt an evil plan to castrate her imagined husband ,and throw the dick into hot oil ,must spam her blog lolx. http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2006/09/weak-women.html
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SO all the girls here agree that men n women are equal?? including ERIC ??lolz if ERIC too agree , i would like to ask him a QUESTION lol so hor, if ERIC gt married one day, is he willing to help bear his wife BURDEN?? since technology is so advance, would he like to get pregnant n bear a child??lolz OR this yr his wife gt pregnant ,next yr ERIC 's turn to bear a child , now husband can take over u women now can be 'free like a bird light like a butterfly' EVOLUTION OF MAN the role of wife ,isnt it perfectly equal ?lolz ahhaa !
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Basically, i took that off Dewi's blog. Cause jason is back. Again. Didn't really say much about what he did the other time because he realised he was wrong and i forgave him. Anywayys, because of one post my mei wrote about guys, he came back and started to discuss this, dissing at us, and dissing XiaXue. Which i think is PLAIN stupid because he can easily land himself into jail if he doesn't know when to stop. According to what i know, the post he wants to slander about was posted somewhat three years back. =.= How dumb. And seriously man. Who said men and women ca't be equal? We ARE in the 21st century for god's sake. Who said we have to folow whatever our boyfriend tells us to do? Who says females have to act like some dog to men? Please, we females DO have minds on our own. Who said we have to follow the orders men give us? No one made the rule saying girlfriends should listen to thier boyfriends to everything they say. So what you're telling me is that we females are dogs, and that when guys want to have sex with thier girlfriends who are NOT of age, these innocent girls should just follow those orders and get involved in underaged sex? PLEASE! ITS BRAINLESS SHIT ALRIGHT? The guy can either get fined, sent to the boys' home, get jailed for those above 18 and even get both penalties. C'MON. Its really stupid alright. AND. C'mon, King and queen, WHO SAID THEY CAN'T BE EQUAL? Haven't you heard of a queen leading a country? Haven't you heard of female presidents? And please, who said men and women have to CHANGE and SWAP gender roles? Giving birth can never be done by men because you have no SEXUAL ORGANS to do so. Going for a sex change won't make you a real woman because the hole is man-made, the hole can't expand for the baby to come out naturally. It will die of strangulation because the hole is too small for it to fit. And basically, after reading XiaXue's post about those bastards, i think i would do exactly the same thing to my boyfriends if they ever dare do such things to me. Because, who said we were meant to be treated that way? Who gave the rule saying the females can be used and ordered and trampled on like dirt or dust? Men always overpower women, so why can't women overpower men? No one said it wasn't correct? There isn't a law stating that men can't get overpowered by women right? What sort of nonsense are you spouting about?
i do have more things to comment on actually. But at the rate im going, i think my brain would be too fried to even come up with more to type. i will continue on this when i have the time. Blog later. BYE!
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Though I really should be in bed now, I can't resist the urge to come and blog. There are many issues I wanna write about, so I'll go a step at a time. Pictures shall definitely be posted, but at a much later date, so bear with me dear readers. =(
Okay so just now, I was watching a few parts of the drama series that airs on Channel 8 every weekeday at 9 P.M. There was this lady who found out her husband was having an affair with another woman, younger, prettier, sexier (I don't follow the series so I don't know the names of the characters). In a scene, the husband was with the third party in bed. The other woman asked the husband why he fell in love with the wife in the first place, and how did they meet.
The husband explained that they met through friends, and he spoke of how beautiful she was when she was younger. But soon after their children were born, all she cared about was them, and the family.
He felt that she has let go of herself, and is no longer in touch with the world. To him, when she was once beautiful, she is now shaggy and unkempt. He felt like they were two strangers in the house, never talking to each other about their dreams and stuff ... and he emphasised on the fact that she didn't know how to please a man. He described her as a teabag used and reused thousands of times, so much that the tea is tasteless and he doesn't want to drink it anymore.
The third party listened, then she asked him what he thought of her. He described her as red wine, full of different tastes at a time, and with each sip he was addicted. He also said she knew how to please a man.I'm not directing this at anybody in particular, but truthfully, I don't understand men in this aspect. If you knew you weren't going to commit, why did you say "I do" in front of the pastor and everyone else that day? I have heard of men being total jerks, but they expect their girls to be pure as the driven snow. I fucking despise male chauvinistic pigs who think they're alpha males who set all the hearts of the female population on fire. I look down on men who disparage women in the belief that they are inferior to males. To such pigs, women are deserving of less than equal treatment or benefit. Yes, you may have a PENIS, but it doesn't make you superior to us females!I know this will offend my male readers, but I don't see why you should be unless you are the type of men I greatly despise. I'm not saying ALL guys are bad, heavens no ... I just can't stand women being treated like mere tissue papers. Yes, I'm a feminist, and so what are you going to do about that? It's just heartbreaking to see females not getting the same equal rights as males. Of course that may not be true in today's society, but I know there are places around that are still highly sexist.
And is sex in a relationship THAT important? Yes, it's the ultimate expression of love, but why do men I see view sex as a hobby? Is sex such an important role in making sure the fire of love continues to burn? I thought love between couples is supposed to be more than just sex. It's all about companionship, trust, loyalty and knowing your partner will always have your back, come what may. The cardinal sin in a relationship is to jump into bed with him/her too quickly, unless you already know he/she isn't gonna walk out on you the next day or anything like that.I'm writing all this not to offend, or to spark off fierce debates. I simply can't understand why so many boys out there must be such heartbreakers, and they often go round tellin' their mates that we girls deny them their manly rights. I loathe it when males don't show any respect for females whatsoever. We, like you, are also human, and we have our rights to decide whether we want to lose it to you or not! Male chauvinism is one thing I really can't stand. It's not just unfair, it's also wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong.Because in the eyes of God, we are all equal. It doesn't matter whether you're a prince or a pauper, a CEO or a road-sweeper. All of us deserve some respect, yes even the road-sweepers. Because they work with their hands and earn honest livings.It's 11:30 P.M. now and I should really stop. If you have any comments on this entry, feel free to tag or email me, but as I've said before, I have NO intention to offend or to spark off fierce debates.
This entry comprises of my thoughts, and yes the old line pops up: Hate it, get out. Easy.
May God bless you, dear readers.
_____________________________________________________________________________________
JASON13 wrote -
im here to read ur blog just to what intersting topic u hv posted .hahas!! dun agree with you larh.Can both KING and QUEEN equal ??gf must serve bf ,BF is king lehz lolz. im seeking to spam a fake angmo girl's blog,can help me find her tagboard ?i cant find it lol. and i dont agree with what she siad in her blog, similar topic like urs,wah!! she gt an evil plan to castrate her imagined husband ,and throw the dick into hot oil ,must spam her blog lolx. http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2006/09/weak-women.html
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SO all the girls here agree that men n women are equal?? including ERIC ??lolz if ERIC too agree , i would like to ask him a QUESTION lol so hor, if ERIC gt married one day, is he willing to help bear his wife BURDEN?? since technology is so advance, would he like to get pregnant n bear a child??lolz OR this yr his wife gt pregnant ,next yr ERIC 's turn to bear a child , now husband can take over u women now can be 'free like a bird light like a butterfly' EVOLUTION OF MAN the role of wife ,isnt it perfectly equal ?lolz ahhaa !
_____________________________________________________________________________________
Basically, i took that off Dewi's blog. Cause jason is back. Again. Didn't really say much about what he did the other time because he realised he was wrong and i forgave him. Anywayys, because of one post my mei wrote about guys, he came back and started to discuss this, dissing at us, and dissing XiaXue. Which i think is PLAIN stupid because he can easily land himself into jail if he doesn't know when to stop. According to what i know, the post he wants to slander about was posted somewhat three years back. =.= How dumb. And seriously man. Who said men and women ca't be equal? We ARE in the 21st century for god's sake. Who said we have to folow whatever our boyfriend tells us to do? Who says females have to act like some dog to men? Please, we females DO have minds on our own. Who said we have to follow the orders men give us? No one made the rule saying girlfriends should listen to thier boyfriends to everything they say. So what you're telling me is that we females are dogs, and that when guys want to have sex with thier girlfriends who are NOT of age, these innocent girls should just follow those orders and get involved in underaged sex? PLEASE! ITS BRAINLESS SHIT ALRIGHT? The guy can either get fined, sent to the boys' home, get jailed for those above 18 and even get both penalties. C'MON. Its really stupid alright. AND. C'mon, King and queen, WHO SAID THEY CAN'T BE EQUAL? Haven't you heard of a queen leading a country? Haven't you heard of female presidents? And please, who said men and women have to CHANGE and SWAP gender roles? Giving birth can never be done by men because you have no SEXUAL ORGANS to do so. Going for a sex change won't make you a real woman because the hole is man-made, the hole can't expand for the baby to come out naturally. It will die of strangulation because the hole is too small for it to fit. And basically, after reading XiaXue's post about those bastards, i think i would do exactly the same thing to my boyfriends if they ever dare do such things to me. Because, who said we were meant to be treated that way? Who gave the rule saying the females can be used and ordered and trampled on like dirt or dust? Men always overpower women, so why can't women overpower men? No one said it wasn't correct? There isn't a law stating that men can't get overpowered by women right? What sort of nonsense are you spouting about?
i do have more things to comment on actually. But at the rate im going, i think my brain would be too fried to even come up with more to type. i will continue on this when i have the time. Blog later. BYE!
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